#SOL18 Day 16 My Neighbor

 My neighbor is moving. I will be so sad to see her go. When we moved into our house in 2009, her husband Al was alive and well. They welcomed us, showed us tricks about our house that they've learned from their house. When I locked myself out before we even moved in, they let me come into their kitchen and wait for the second set of keys to be brought to me. 

 Norma bakes cookies for us, especially when my husband shovels her driveway in the snow. She remembers everyone's birthday with cards and little gifts for the kids. She used to sit on the front lawn with Al around sunset, watching the cars drive by and the kids play, her sipping wine while he drank a beer. 

 Al passed away in 2015 and Norma is looking for a smaller place, a one floor home. She will probably be leaving by April. She's been cleaning out her house and offering us different items she finds. 

 I will miss her smile and quiet kindness. I know the move will be good for her, but it's another chapter closing. Our other neighbors pay us no attention at all, and Norma was a warm, friendly person to wave to and chat with on spring afternoons. 

 Good neighbors are hard to find. 

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